Thomas Hood The Doctor is in the house. Today's Lady is intimately and intensely involved in the union of spirituality and sexuality as desired reality. She's the mom of a 22 year old and linked to her soul twin. She is a producer of audio and video inspiration and information that inspires the assertive to achieve their sexually spiritual and spiritually sexual dreams. Today's Lady in the Spotlight is from Rotterdam, The Netherlands. The Lady in The Spotlight for Valentine's Day Twenty O Eight is Cora Emens. You're going to love Cora! The Editor's Valentine I FALL IN LOVE EVERYDAY There is no accounting for love.
Colleen Huckabee
1950's and 60's soul balladeer Sam Cooke recorded a song entitled, "I Fall in Love Everyday." I know because I was a teen in the late 1960's. I bought the vinyl 45 and I wore it out on my record player playing it over and over.
It did something to me on the inside when I listened. It made me feel alive to hear someone sing what I seemed to always feel. Since my teen years, I have always found that I Fall in Love Everyday.
I never know who. I never know how. Some days the new ones to receive the attention of my affection are black. Some days they are white. Some days they are brown. Some days they are older. Some days they are younger. Some days they are thick. Some days they are thin.
None of that matters because I don't pack the need for all love to lead to sex into the moment. All I know is that someone new will appear in my world for me to love them from my heart.
I, personally, fall in love everyday. I live expecting to attract someone new for me to immediately love from my heart without any expectation of reciprocal or mutual exchange.
Love is what I do because I am wired that way. I am thankful to be wired to be overtly and intentionally giving to empower, to inform, to inspire, and to entertain another or others.
My personal goal and love's goal seem one. It is to bring the gift of joy to another or others for a moment or for a lifetime. The privilege of making new friends and building new relationships is the extraordinary reward and grace when living a life falling in love everyday. I am a witness.
My Prayer For Today: To live right and love right as I Fall in Love Everyday. Oscar Crawford, Editor and Publisher The Lady in The Spotlight |
Interview with Cora Emens |
LADY: Where did you get your caring heart?
CORA: I always cared, as long as I remember. Part of it I got from my parents but even they warned me I was too nice, too naïve and gave too much away. I think I came into this world with the desire to help others and this planet. 
LADY: Who modeled caring for you and has been your greatest inspiration for life? CORA: My partner who supports me in everything I do and who took care of me in times of physical pains and despair. Finding him and sharing our life together ever since has taught me it is possible to follow my dreams and my heart's desires and in the first place care for myself before trying to care for others. That sounds egocentric but we have to start with loving ourselves before we can love others. In other words we have to be able to feel love before we can share it with another person. LADY: What is your life mission? CORA: To be happy and in love and to spread joy. To find out who I am through self expression. To stay young at heart until I die and be an inspiration to others.
LADY: What is that thing greater than yourself that you are committed to? CORA: I believe we are all one, we are all part of the One like parts of a hologram.  LADY: What do you sense is the greatest need among people where you live and people across the Planet Earth?
CORA: The need to be as valuable as the next person, to share the wealth and abundance this planet has to offer equally. The need to realize our full potential as human being and to understand that we create our own world and we are all connected. The truth of who we really are.
LADY: If you had the power to change three things going on in the world right now, what would you change and why?
CORA: Raise consciousnes about who we are and our innate abilities so that we would start to operate from a higher vibration, from love and light. So we all become connected in creating a more peaceful environment and take care of our heritage, Planet Earth.Reconnect sex and spirituality, our birthright that has been taken away from us to get power over us and keep us slaves to the system. I believe we all are able to listen to a voice within that connects us with the universe. End all domination from one person or one country over the other, let people be equal in their uniqueness and realize we are all part of something bigger then ourselves.
LADY: What is your sense of the why of the conflicts between adult women and men, people of different ethnic groups, people of different economic groups, or just people of different social or gender preferences?
CORA: Because we have learned to fight instead of to love and embrace differences. Because we always look for somebody or something outside of us to blame if things don't work out as we planned. Because we haven't grown up yet as a species and are still occupied with the dualistic material world and possessions. We haven't realized, "en masse" that we are all one. We are still being taught through the mass media that there is not enough for everybody. So we should fear others and live in competition with each other. Television has a huge influence in teaching people how to behave, what to think, how and whom to love but it is being used for mass manipulation. We live the story we believe in, we create our own reality.
LADY: Who is your current greatest living influence and why?
CORA: People who seek the truth, people who seek to develop their true potential, people who spread love and joy and hope. I don't have one particular hero. I listen mostly to my inner voice. Other people can inspire you but never try to become them. We all have our individual ray of light to share. My family inspires me, my man with his faith and my daughter by being herself.
LADY: What are your recommendations for families with children? CORA: Don't sell your children out to the system. The system is corrupt and unnatural. It makes people sick. Inspire them to dream and make their own dreams come through. Teach them about love and self realisation instead. There is nothing wrong with the children of today, there is something wrong with the system we force them into. And we know it. So why go on doing it? They don't need Ritalin or other behavioral correction drugs, neither do we. All they need is love. Be open about how love is made, stay sexy. Don't hide your sexuality from them for they will do the same to you. Kids learn from the way you behave not from what you tell them. Teach them that sex is natural, it makes you smart, keeps you healthy, creates feelings of love and connectedness.
LADY: How do you process all the human violence and natural disasters taking place all over the world? CORA: By taking a higher viewpoint than only from my heart. If I feel it with my heart I get sick and despair. The only way I can deal with it is by doing the best I can and have faith that one day we all wake up. For the ones who die I feel no sorrow, death is not the end, but I sympathize with the ones who lost their loved ones and wish all this suffering would stop.
LADY: What are you living for? What do you hope for yourself, your family, your community, and for humanity? CORA: On a totally egocentric level I hope to be able to sing and dance a lot. To develop myself further as a full human being. For my family I wish we are prosperous when it comes to work as well as play together, my community connectedness and for humanity I hope that one day we embrace [making]love as our guiding light. LADY: What is your sense of what the future holds? CORA: First I think we are going to see a lot of natural phenomena and disasters. People will loose their trust in Governments as they are incapable of protecting us. Painful as this all will be, it is about time for a huge house cleaning. I see a lot of people dying if we don't wake up soon and change our ways. The ones who did prepare themselves and align themselves with higher energy and start living more from their hearts will help others and eventually we will create a new world in which money and greed does not have a role to play anymore. We will realize that we are all in this world together. And we'll better off cooperating than in competition with each other. 
My life is a quest into developing myself as a human being through sexuality, shamanism, music, dance and sharing this with others. Sex has always been a very pleasant way to relax, experience bliss, get inspired, connect with others and feel one. I feel that the world needs to heal sexually, we need to learn how to raise our energy in alignment with the universe and what is happening right now. We have to learn how to raise our consciousness and listen to our inner voice instead of the voices of others who keep us in fear. Since sex has been used as a control mechanism for thousands of years in order to keep us from our own powers, I feel it is the most important creative energy we have to learn how to use. Not for greed but for re: creational purpose. As an artist I am both reliant on my sexuality to know myself and to express myself. I express myself to connect on a sexual level and on an emotional and spiritual level as well. You can read about me and get to know me on my various websites: Cora Emens On this site you can find all about me and almost all of my sites. Besides having my own sites I have pages on myspace and You Tube. Come have a look. I am sure you can find some things to do for Valentines day on at least one of my sites. Sex Academy is not only about ancient sacred sexuality in this new age, it also looks ancient. Ancient for the web, that is, it was created about 10 years ago. So please forgive me for how outdated it looks. The information and exercises on it are still valid. 
My most recent web-pleasure is my You Tube channel CoshidaMedia: Cora on YOUTUBE 
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Occupation: sex-coach, artist, owner of Coshida Multi Media.
Goal Occupation: to re-establish the connection between sexuality and spirituality so that we can become fully aware co-creators of our own perfect reality.
City, State, Country Currently Living In: Harmelen, the Netherlands
Birthday, No Year; 02-08 , second of august. I am a Leo with Cancer rising and moon in Scorpio.
Birthplace: Rotterdam
Marital Status/Children: involved in a 11 year relationship with my twin-soul, one daughter of 22.
Car/s: Suzuki Vitara Cabrio, a great 4x4, jeep-like car, they don't make them like that anymore.
Currently Working On: Headsex, real time spoken guidance in sexual techniques and erotic states with lounge music on CD's. Tantric Trance, audience participated performances on festivals to induce an erotic state and tantric awareness with music [DJ], ritual and voice.
Birth Order: the first and the last
Favorite Quote:
"An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away", May West.
The Last Good Movie I Saw:
"What the Bleep Do We Know". Lot's of people are making their own short movies now. I recently discovered You Tube and the wealth of creativity that is out there since a lot of people have access now themselves to the technical stuff needed to create your own movies.
The Last Good Book I Read
"The Red Tent". Or was it something else? It has been a while. I used to read books a lot. Now I find most what I want to know on the internet. Although I still like reading, but lately I haven't read any novels.
Favorite Singer: Chet Baker gets me week in the knees with his soft breathy voice. Favorite Song/s: I like so many different songs, from jazz to New Age. The one that comes to mind right now is: "I've Got The World On a String, (sitting on a rainbow)". From my own songs is "The Call" still my favorite. I like songs without words as well. I am a big fan of Lisa Gerard, she is definitely one of my favorite female singers.
Favorite Actress or Actor:
there are so many great ones. How to pick one without doing the others injustice? Jack Nicolson is one of the best. He really got under my skin with his role in "One Flew Over the Coockoo's Nest", but as a person he is not particularly my favorite. As an actress I like Catherine Zeta-Jones a lot. She is beautifull , sexy and full of fire.The Most Beautiful Person In The World: I like people who are themselves, who love themselves and love others. Who have that special light in their eyes that shows that they are turned on. [physically as well as mentally and spiritually]. I went to a lecture of the Dalai Lama once, he was emanating so much love, that is beauty.
The Most Attractive Person In The World: I am not very good at picking just one. If I have to it will be Johnny Depp because he is drop dead gorgeous and a playful person. So sexy.
My Favorite Childhood Memory:
being on and in the water every day, be it sailing, swimming or ice-skating. I love the freedom of feeling one with the elements. Surfing with a boat over the waves was my first orgasmic experience without having sex.
My Favorite Childhood Friend:
my cousin, whom I felt really connected to and who showed me dirty magazines like Chick and Suck when I wanted to learn anything about sex, since my parents would not tell nor teach me anything. She was the one I could talk to. She came from a big family, with lots of brothers and sisters. At least we got to giggle and experiment with kissing each other to prepare for the boyfriends we would get later.
My Nickname Was/Is:HeartCora. [ a play on hardcore] Given to me by my dear friend and famous American artist ex-pornstar Annie Sprinkle PhD. For the way I am using sexuality to express my heart.
I Want To Teach My Child: to believe in herself, to express her inner self, to live and speak with her heart and that she is the creator of her own experiences and to care for the earth. Since she is already grown up I think I can say that she has become a great artist who knows that there are more important things in life than money.
A Really Big Evening To Me Is: when I attend my partner's performance. He is a jazz crooner and his voice is great. Every time he lifts my spirit up and his voice warms not only my heart but the hearts and souls of the audience as well. Listen for yourself and let me know: shaishahar.com That as well as giving a workshop, being a guest on a TV-show or doing my Tantric Trance ritual. So I can turn other people on. Of course I like to be in my lovers arms as well, a nice romantic dinner with some whine, some massage and all the time in the world to dive into each other.
The One Thing I Cannot Stand Is:
dishonesty
I Knew I Was Grown Up When:
hmm, I am still a child at heart who does not want to grow up. It took me many years to take anything seriously. I grew up I guess when I was around 40 years old when I realized that not everything in the world was sweetness and light. Ahh such bliss to see or hear no evil.
I Stay Home To Watch: actually I would not stay home for it but I like Heroes, Lost, Californication and BCC documentaries. They are great.
The One Thing Everybody Has Done But Me Is: anal sex.
My All Time Favorite Story Is:
The little mermaid. The original book version! The Gilead Organization I read it when I was a little girl, from all the fairy tales this one touched my soul and made me cry. I could so much understand the dilemma of leaving her safe world of freedom for a different experience, for her prince she fell in love with. The pain in her legs she had to endure because of it and the end in which she died. Luckily because of her good heart instead of becoming foam on the waves she got lifted up. The daughters of the air rescued her. They made the Little Mermaid one of them so that she could earn an eternal soul through the protection of children. I read it to my daughter when she was small and I read it years later for the deeper meaning it has. After reading the Sumerian Clay tablets , which is to me THE All time story it became clear to me what the inspiration was for the little mermaid and why it touched me on such a profound level. The Little Mermaid
My Favorite Pig Out Food Is:
Corn-chips, chocolate.
My Prized Possession Is:
nothing material, although I could not imagine what my life would look like without my laptop. I would love to have my own sailing boat though.
If I Could Look Like Anybody Besides Myself, I'd Look Like: a younger version of myself. I believe that my body reflects my mind and soul. To look different would mean I would be different as a person as well. If I could change anything I would like to have longer legs, just to be a little taller. But maybe if I would have been taller I would not have had anything to make up for.
I'd Give Anything To Meet: more Indigo children and enlightened beings.
My Fantasy Is: besides attending a party that ends in a group orgy,..is to live in a peaceful world in which we all get to express our inner light.
The Worst Advice An Adult Ever Gave Me Was: to become a secretary. It was my dad's advice and I had never been so insulted in my life. Nothing wrong with being a secretary, but it was not my ambition. It was then that I understood my father did not have a clue who I was and what I came here to do. He thought he'd given me sound advice to earn a living. I think it is criminal to have to "earn" a living, to have a debt to the bankers of the world the moment you are born. I knew I had to make a difference.
I Am Better Than Anyone When It Comes To: being myself. No really, I did not make many concessions to who I am. People tell me I am still pure of heart and soul.
If I Could Change One Thing About Myself, I Would: start really believing that I am able to repair my own body. I am studying how to do that right now.
People Who Knew Me In School Thought I Was: different, special.
The Best Time Of My Life Was/Is:
I believe the best is yet to come. I had some great moments though. Having my baby, swimming with dolphins, hiking the Napali coast in Hawaii, sailing my boat, meeting my twinsoul, and other great people, having lots and lots of great sex, being a radio and TV presentrice on programs about sexuality. I feel life has still a lot in store for me.
The Worst Time Of My Life Was/Is:
when my father was dying and I was too sick to be of much help and missed the moment he left his body. 
Behind My Back, My Friends Say:
what did you expect, with those green eyes? If I Have Learned One Thing In Life, It's: stay positive, focus on the things you want rather than on the things you don't want. We create our own reality. We can choose to feel miserable and create more misery or we can choose to feel good about ourselves and the situation we are in and create more wellbeing. We can choose to feel sexy and have more fulfilling sex as well.
My Most Humbling Experience Was/Is: having physical problems and lot's of pain after giving birth while I never had any problems before. I learned compassion, I can relate to others who experience some sort of pain. Before that I was pretty arrogant and could not understand why people created so much misery and pain in their lives.
Three Words That Best Describe Me Are: sexy, creative, Leo! | 
Oscar Crawford, Publisher/Editor The Lady in The Spotlight http://ladyinthespotlight.8m.net The Lady in The Spotlight has a new logo. A lady stands in silhouette in the spotlight representing the divine human feminine gift of creation. | |
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